October will be a busy month for us and just thinking about it is stressing me out. I keep adding things to the the calendar and the To Do list is getting longer and longer. As I was sorting laundry this morning I was running through the list in my head when I realized that many of the things were simply things I
wanted to do but are really not all that important.
Take the
Kids Clothes Week Challenge for example. I love the
satisfaction of making clothes for my kids but do they really need one more skirt in the drawer? Will they run out of things to wear if I don't finish every thing I have planned to make them? No. Do I want to get that pile off my
craft room table? Yes, but it does not have to happen today.
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I just have to let some things go... like these bananas. I will not be in trouble if these up in the trash instead of made into bread. There will be more bananas.
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My knitting is the hardest to scratch off the list. I really, really want to finish
this wrap before we take a trip to the
Midwest but I'm starting to realize there is just not going to be enough time. I could let the laundry pile up feed my family peanut butter sandwiches for dinner but is it worth it? Knitting should not have a deadline like an
assignment to be turned in.
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All the baking and sewing and knitting I do for my family is best when done with love, not pressure. I've decided to give myself a break and put some projects on hold so I can focus on things like laundry. Who knows, maybe I'll even put my feet up for a few minutes and not do anything.
3 comments:
I can totally relate to stressing over the list and the ironic part is that blogging has become part of it. You're definitely looking at things the right way though - must do's vs. have to's.
Oh, I know these feelings. There are so many things I want to accomplish before my little one is due (3.5 weeks!). I have to remind myself to slow down...
That should be my mantra this week.... "NOT WORTH STRESSING OVER"! Thanks for posting this - I can totally relate!
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